Sunday 5 January 2014

Do Not Commit To Anybody

It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not commit to anyside or  cause but yourself.

By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others- playing people against one another, making them pursue you.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Do Not Offend The Wrong Person, Know Who You're Dealing With..

There are many different kind of people in the world, and you can never assume that everybody will react to your strategies in the same way.

Deceive some people and they will spend the rest of their lifes seeking revenge.

They are wolves in lambs' clothing. Choose your victim and opponent carefully, then never offend or deceive the wrong person.

Small word they say is enough for the wise.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Saturday 4 January 2014

Isolation Is Dangerous; Dont Build Fortress To Protect Yourself

The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere-Everyone has to protect themselves.

A fortress seems the safest, but isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from it-It cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and An easy target.

Better to circulate among people, find allies, mingle.              

You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Cultivate An Habit Of Unpredictability

Humans are creature of habit with insatiable needs to see familiarities in other people's actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control.

Turn the table, be delibrately unpredicatable. Behaviour that seems to have no consistency or purpose will keep them off-balance and they will wear themselves out trying to predict your moves.

Take to an extreme, this strategy can intimidate and terrorize.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Friday 3 January 2014

Destroy Your Enemy Totally

All great leaders with moses have known That a feared enemy must be destroyed completely.

If one ember is left alight, no matter how dimly it smolders, a fire will eventually broke out.

More is lost through stopping half-way then through total destruction. The enemy will recover and Will seek revenge.

Crush all your enemy not only in body but also the spirit.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Post As A Friend, Work As A Spy

Knowing about your rival is important, use spies to gather important information that will keep you a step ahead.

Better still, play the spy yourself. In polite social encounter, learn to probe.

Ask indirect questions to get people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Thursday 2 January 2014

Use Generocity and Selective Honesty To Disarm Your Leaders

One sincere and honest move will cover over dozen of dishonest ones. Open hearted gesture of honesty and generocity brings down the guards of even the most suspicious people.

Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can decieve and manipulate them at will.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Learn To Keep People To Be Dependant On You

To maintain your independence and relevance you must always be needed and wanted, the more you are relied on the more freedom you have.

Try as much as possible to make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and you have nothing to worry about.

Never teach them enough or your secret so that they can depend on you for everything.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Try To Avoid The Unhappy & Unlucky People

Emotional states are as infectious as a disease. You can die from some else's misery.

You may feel that you are helping the unhappy man but you are only precipitating your own disaster.

The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on someone who associate with them.

Associate yourself with fortunate and happy people and you will see the difference.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Never Win Through Argument, Win Through Action

Any discussion that you win through argument is really a pyrrhIc victory.

It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your action, without saying a word of argument.

People will always respect you whenever you do this. Like they say that action speaks louder than voice. So let uour action speaks for you.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Wednesday 1 January 2014

Control Peoples' Mind

Whenever you force people to act, you are the one in control.

It is always ideal to make people come to you for help by abandoning his own work in the process. Lure them With fabulous gain and then attack them.

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AshmarkOlakunle

Get People To Do The Work For You, While You Get The Credit

Use the wisdom, knowledge and work of other people to support your own cause.

Not only will this save your time and energy, it will give you a GODlike aura of efficiency and speed.

At the end of the cause, your helper will ne forgotten and you will be praised.

Therefore, never do yourself what others can do for you.

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AshmarkOlakunle